Last night, I and my boyfriend were brooding over the fact that we won’t be able to talk over the phone as frequently as now since he will be leaving for another country very soon. And worst, only God knows how many times we will be meeting up in a year!!
And I can’t just imagine making an overseas call everyday!!
The best solution I could come up with was chatting on the internet and video chats.
But the main fear was … would we be able to keep the trust and faith in our love alive??
That was the biggest fear!!
We wouldn’t cease loving each other, that’s for sure but staying apart from each other with less contact and still having that strong bond is hard to maintain.
Different time zones, new environment, new people in life and everyday schedule will surely bring about differences in our relationship and make things very hard for us.
We promised that we would give our best efforts and survive through the distance.
I can’t imagine life without him…. If I lose him, I will not only lose a lover, but also lose my best friend. I can’t afford to lose my lover , my best friend!!
The two love stories , Going the distance and Dear John inspires me a lot and helps me hope against hope that despite the thousand miles separating us, our hearts wil always be one and no matter how far we stay apart without seeing each other, we will always remain soulmates….
GOING THE DISTANCE: A romantic comedy centered on a guy and a gal who try to keep their love alive as they shuttle back and forth between New York and San Francisco to see one another.
My favourite line :‘Now John could see that it was indeed Savannah, and she had come out to watch the moon and remember all the moments she had spent with him. John then raises his eyes to the moon as well, and he says “for the briefest instant, it almost feels like we’re together again.”‘
Friends are advising me to ask him to stay back if I plan to keep him in my life forever. They think I’m being foolish to let him go far away and hoping for a fairy tale ending working out a long distance relationship…. they say it has never worked out for any one how much they try except in movies and novels.
But I have this ray of hope always breaking through my heart that whatever I’m doing is for our own good future!!I believe in my love and most of all, I believe in his genuine love….
I know if a day comes when I will have to let go of him for some obvious reasons, he will be there holding on to me and making me believe that….